I just have this chit chat with one of my bestfriends which then correlate to what happen just now to me. I told her, my chat friends, that I like average man. She's like having the storm in the day, asking "What? since when? why?"...Good, I can at least get her curiosity because she's the kind of girl that just never had the positive angle talking about love, spouse, marriage life, etc. I probably have no time to tell the world that I do like average man. Even my past life might not describing that, bu I do like them. Well, I have to admitt that this liking is getting higher in my marriage life, not to mention having an average husband. But dont get it wrong. When I said average, It doesnt mean bad. Wait until I define it. Average man is responsible, loyal, not womanizer, people tend to like, and the most important is, family man. I might not have the hangky pangky time with him, visiting night club, picnic every weekend, seeing friends all the time.. No, I did not do that now. But This is just fine with me. Peaceful life. What should I expect more?
People are busy shouting their friends "Get a life!"...What do they mean by that, usually they mean by "get an interesting life". Interesting, then, define as fluctuatif life. Hell no. It's not an interesting life for me. I am not a western lifestyle addicted. What is wrong with relaxing life, playing with izi in the grass of our front yard instead of bringing him to mall or playland of kids, watching tv with husband for the whole weekend and talking. This is life. An interesting life, you can say.
This average life with average man I have, then completed by my activity as anggota Persit. Why? Because then I will not be able to get higher position in my office now due to the impossibility for me to come home late, come office earlier; that will make me as average employee. I have to spend time also for my Persit activity but I can not be the superduper activist in this TN* wife organization, this will make me average anggota Persit. Haa...still want to say that being average is boring? think again. It's better for me to maintain my role in life in many aspects (even in average level) rather than I have to be in the highest position in one aspect.
Thursday, June 7, 2007
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